Postpartum Pressure
The season is upon us at MotherWit to embark upon our yearly postpartum doula training events. I love autumn and winter for these trainings, because it gets us into the energy of hunkering down, lying fallow, resting up, and gathering power. Every new parent needs...
read moreBirth and Beyond Conference Memories
I am just settling back home after an amazing, nourishing, and crazy conference experience. What I feel was the most important aspect of the feeling of supportive community the Vesta Parenting ladies (Birth and Beyond Conference organizers Shawn DeVree and Melanie...
read moreRandom Doula Tip #2: Get to Know Who Your Clients Are
I spend a lot of quality time with my clients prenatally. I find this kind of careful attention pays off in the birthing room. It is important for me to know who they are. I find there can sometimes be attachment to certain "methods" of labour support. Some doulas...
read moreRandom Doula Tip #1: TALK to Your Labouring Clients
Happy Mother's Day, Sweet Mamas! I haven't blogged in a long while, and have missed it. So I thought every now and then I'd throw out some random doula tips that have helped me along the way, just to throw y'all a bone. Please know that these are my personal...
read moreIn Memory of Siobhan McKay
I have been so grateful recently for my in-person and online community of friends, doulas and other birth workers. There are many concerns about social media, and obviously many of them are valid. But when things like Facebook and blogs are used for the purpose of...
read moreShadow, Trauma, and Love: A Doula’s Path to Healing
Being a doula is an amazing job. We are frequently exposed to and bathed in the healing light of massively transformative love as new parents, quivering from the shock of birth, reach for the fruit of their hard work, taking the new life they’ve worked so hard for...
read moreBirth as Religion
Hi folks, No, I haven't gone anywhere. I have been busy doing other writings, and slowly easing back into my life as I get used to being a well person again. I am busy, but not working at the crazy pace I did before I got sick. I will never go back to that pace...
read moreOwning Pain
I had a conversation about epidurals with an OB friend of mine this weekend. His thoughts were, "Sometimes I don't know if I should offer one or not." I absolutely understand this conundrum of the primary caretaker in a hospital birth. Firstly, it's assumed most...
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