In Praise of Spaces

Birth is so much about swelling, surging, growing, stretching to maximum capacity, riding the waves, and being full to bursting. I want to take a minute to remember the importance of the spaces. The pauses. The rests. We spend so much time as doulas and birthing...

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control

I think it is so important to know how little control we have over the birth process, as birthing women and as doulas. It hurts a little every time to have this lesson driven home. I think there is a secret belief that if we do everything right, like provide the...

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Royally Miffed

I am one annoyed doula tonight. H1N1 continues to plague our practices. Yves Bolduc, Quebec's Health Minister, said that he felt making a birthing woman choose between her husband or her doula in Montreal hospitals was, in short, paranoid. So despite the fact that I...

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musings from a very tired doula

Oh, so tired! What a busy week ahead...days packed with pre and post natals, and goodness knows when babies will come and all will have to be rescheduled. But this is the gift of doula work...I never know what the day will bring. Life is never boring.I am full of...

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